There are different opinions of people when it comes to marriage as they want their partner to be with them for a lifetime so they opt to be married to that person. When it comes to marriage, there are different things that you need to ignore and cut of the cultural roots which come from your parents or your ancestors.
To keep the marriage going, you should just listen to your partner and device your relationship accordingly and not listen to the myths which were created long ago by different people.
Spring is just approaching, which means that there will be increased marriages so there are certain things which you need to ignore marriage which is given below. If you are being married this year you should consider them.
1. NO FIGHTING
Many people think that marriage is simply a process where you are blessed with the new partner and there will be no fights with your partner. Well, that is not true because every relationship has arguments and it because you cannot match the thinking of your partner. It is going to be even worse for the relationship if you think that yours and your partner’s thinking will never be the same. If you saying that there will not a single fight or argument sessions with your partner you are definitely wrong and it is the Myth which people need to ignore while they are getting married. Whenever you and your partner do not think the same about a certain thing, You should leave that And be less holding grudges.
2. YOUR SOUL MATE IS EXACTLY LIKE YOU
Thinking that your soulmate is exactly like you is not true because there is a probability that you and your partner think differently. There are different things which you may have in common but it is not true that your soulmate is exactly like you. If you think that it is true you need to give your thoughts a chance again because it is not true. As you know about the common saying that opposite attracts people even more than having similar. Something similar in a partner who is entirely opposite to you is rather a blessing. You should compromise on various things to last long relationship.
3. EVERYONE HAS “THE ONE” OUT THERE
The world is full of people and you should not say that you only have a certain person in the whole world for you. There is an idea of being Soulmate to the person you love but it adds pressure in a relationship which is not true. You need to work hard on your marriage to last longer but all the marriages require work and some refer to last them. the things are never served in a plate to you rather you have to work to make that relationship last longer.
4. DON’T GO TO BED MAD
You should not go to the bed mad because it is even harder to sleep with the person you think is upset with you. It will Trigger the thoughts of being breaking up with that person so you need to have a distance from your partner to deal with the situation. You can not give the time for thinking to your partner the whole day but sleep is their time when they may think better. So you should not stay all night fighting as the next day we bring new opportunities for you.
5. AN IDENTICAL LIFE PLAN
There is always a possibility that you have an identical life plan but you do not need to have the same plan as your partner. There are different things which may be common in you and your partner like getting married or want to have some kids but you do not need to think that you and your partner will have an identical life plan. You should not spoil the peace of your partner rather you should discuss what they are willing to do for you so that you can have a relationship in a better way.
6. INTIMACY GETS BORING OR HAPPENS LESS
Every relationship needs to keep it going and if you think that it gets boring with time. It is not wrong because spicing up relationships every then and now is very important to keep the relationship going in a healthy way.
7. YOU LOSE YOUR INDEPENDENCE
You think that you lose your Independence but it is not that true because you may not get all the freedom you had before your marriage but it does not really mean that you can never become independent or lose the sense of being yourself. You and your partner may have a separate life, enjoy friendship sessions, and enjoy independence in spite of being together.
8. YOU GET USED TO ALL YOUR PARTNER’S ANNOYING HABITS
When you live with the person there are certain things you do not like about that person and they leave you annoyed at the end but you need to get used to your partner’s annoying habits is not true. Discuss that what you like ok about your partner and what not and you need to find a proper mechanism for yourself so that your makeup with all the annoying habits of your partner or have to ask him to change them.
9. CHILDREN MAKE A MARRIAGE THRIVE
Children make a relationship thrive is not true and in the Earth has been spoiling the thoughts of people for so long. Although children do make a relationship last longer and you want to be with each other just because children see but it is not true that you are with your partner just because of your children. When you have kids, you may try to fix the marriage but if you are not able to the relationship may break even.
10. YOUR SPOUSE CAN INTUIT EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED AND HOT TO MAKE YOU HAPPY
You need to communicate about it with your life and when you vocalize with your partner, the various Windows for a healthy relationship are open. You have to say whatever is bothering you so that you may enjoy a longer relationship with your partner.